by Debra Bendis
Most of us won’t be affected by today’s closing of Women's Health Care Services Inc. Until Dr. George Tiller was murdered, I thought little about the Wichita clinic or, for that matter, about late-term abortions; if pressed I would say that late-term abortion is the place to “draw the line” in abortion legislation.
Now I’m reading the stories of women whom Dr. Tiller aided, of their situations and their decisions to abort their pregnancies. While these stories don’t cancel the need for Christians to wrestle with abortion and possibly to support restrictions through legislation, the stories shake us loose from any moral high ground we thought we had reached in our own decisions—and sensitize or resensitize us to human suffering.
They also persuade me of Dr. Tiller’s moral commitment to these women even when he was under constant threat of death. I honor both his compassion and service, and I honor the suffering of these women, men and their families.
A significant number of the abortions that Tiller was performing were in cases of serious physical distress, either for the mother, the baby or both. Sometimes the pregnant women were suicidal; often they were victims of rape. Doctors from across the country referred patients in these crisis situations to Dr. Tiller or a few other doctors who perform such abortions. And yes, Tiller sometimes counseled against abortion or refused to perform one.
Before these women and their crises move to the Internet archives, and on the day when the Wichita Clinic has closed its doors, it’s worth asking ourselves what women in late-term pregnancy and dire circumstances will do without this doctor. As Tiller’s colleague Dr. Bill Harrison says of these sick and desperate women, "I don't know what happens to them now."
6 comments:
While I deplore the shooting of Dr. Tiller, I find it difficult to make him out to be a hero. He made a living performing one of the most gruesome medical procedures imaginable. While there are truly tragic stories in the posts you site, I can't help but notice that there was no mention of his willingness to perform late-term abortions on children that were not dead or destined to be still-born. If this is a debate on the merits of late-term abortion then let us not pretend that Dr. Tiller is any more a hero than Dr. Jack Kevorkian.
Do you "honor the suffering" of the unborn children that were aborted as well?
I read one very interesting story from someone who adopted a child that Dr. Tiller refused to abort which makes me think there's a lot more that I don't know about Dr. Tiller and his clinic. These stories have really opened my eyes to a subject I've never thought much about. I always assumed late-term abortions were the worst of the worst--certainly the most gruesome. I begin to think that it's actually the early term abortions, the ones that are easiest on the eyes, that may be more worrisome.
I don't even know what to say about it, however. One of the things that seems most common in these stories is "You never know exactly how you are going to respond and what you are going to do until you are in that situation yourself." Abortion is so much easier to talk about in theory.
Yes, indeed, knowing people's personal story can make a great deal of difference in our attitudes. When we were trying to make abortion "legal and safe" in Alaska, one of our bitterest opponents in the debate rushed to an abortion clinic when his underage daughter became pregnant "out of wedlock". It all depends on whose "ox is being gored" and it takes people who are willing to look at the total picture for us to really make laws and personal decisions that are just to all concerned. Having people without any personal stake in the outcome pontificate and/or make laws seems to be the wrong way for such personal decisions to be made. I remember one "Christian" writing to a legislator who was sponsoring legislation to make abortion "safe and legal" in Alaska: "I wish your mother had aborted you." It is no wonder that some people reject Christianity after contact with some Christians, not worthy of the name.
"Trust Women"
What a concept.
May God bless his soul.
Rev. Lucy Jones
Anonymous said...
There is a truth standard concerning life and that standard is set by God. Life is not biology it is God breathed and He says it is too precious to destroy. That standard is the standard that must be obeyed. There is no truth standard based on the "situation." That "situation ethical" standard just won't fly with the God who creates each life.
A better way for solving these life situations is to come together to create community and help for those who face seemingly impossible situations and preserve all the lives.
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